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Clinical Psychologist
Dr Paul Whetham
"A great challenge and the best thing I’ve ever done” – Robyn

Modern life can leave us feeling overwhelmed, anxious, lonely, or empty.
I'm Dr Paul Whetham, a clinical psychologist trained in depth psychology and neuroscience. I was previously the Director of a Master of Counselling program at university and have co-authored psychology textbooks.
I'm passionate about individual counselling and helping people reconnect with themselves, others, and the life they really want to live.
☕ “Smashed my darkest thoughts & reclaimed my unlived life.” – Kim

The real cemetery isn't at the end of life – it's the unlived life inside us.
Join us on an 80-hour, 4-part journey to uncover what's been buried, reclaim what's been forgotten and discover what your life is asking you to become.
We operate out of only 5% of our conscious mind. Explore the hidden forces shaping how you think, feel, relate and live using depth psychology and neuroscience.
ALL 4 Unlived Life Workshops (Gateway, Compass, Map, Rules)
are run face-to-face & online. Join us!
☕“A life-changing course which examines how to reclaim our true inner self and positive mental health through theoretical and practical strategies" – Steele

Perhaps something is right with you – not wrong wight with you – for feeling the modern-day struggles of anxiety, loneliness or emptiness.
Much of mental health asks, "How do we reduce symptoms?" At Life Cafe, we also ask, "What are these symptoms trying to tell us?"
The Meaning Path Series takes you beyond symptom management into the deeper questions of meaning, connection, and the unlived life.
Flip the Script.
Find the Path.
3 books. 3 doors. 1 path.
Loneliness • Anxiety • Emptiness
☕ "The Meaning Path is the best thing I've ever done" – Tom

Loneliness is an epidemic and a killer. It affects 1 in 2 people in the U.S. and carries the same health risk as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
The Beyond Loneliness Project aims to impact the anti-social century by training people in the community to become skilled friends who can move the conversation from small talk to soul talk.
Council & Government bodies fund the Beyond Loneliness Project:
☕ Community Connector Course I (Small talk skills 10-hours)
☕ Community Connector Course II (Soul talk skills 10-hours)
☕ "Less lonely, my world transformed" – Liv
Dr Paul Whetham equips people with life-changing people skills to thrive in the anti-social century. Paul did his PhD on loneliness and has written numerous books including the Meaning Path Series to reframe loneliness as a modern-day pathfinder. Join the discovery!